Mommy No. 3

Thursday, November 13th, 2008

I know - 3 posts in one day. They’ve been backing up here in my brain b/c I’ve been BIZZZY (see below).

This one is short b/c I’m still sorting it out in my head.

K’s mom came and stayed with us this weekend because she had nowhere else to go.

I was scared shitless for her to come. Not b/c she could take K away. Not b/c I was afraid of anything to do with thier relationship. I’m glad she came for that reason. I was scared b/c I didn’t want her drama in my home.

She’s gone now. She and K’s big brother (he’s 4) have found a sober living home that they can live in while she gets her shit figured out.

I’m trying to sort out my feelings about it all. I’m glad we helped her. I’m so glad she’s gone and I kindof feel shitty about feeling that way.  

We ARE NULLIFED AND MOLLIFIED.

Thursday, November 13th, 2008

The prop was passed - IN CALIFORNIA?? 

We had great ads. We had Ugly Betty’s cast supporting us. I thought that was cool since they could loose viewers. We had a ton of other great ads with big name supporters. The ads pointed out that California wouldn’t let Armenians by houses in the 50’s - and we realized that was wrong. They pointed out that bi-racial marriage used to be illegal - and we realized that was wrong. They pointed out how many rights (over 1000) we are denied. There was some good stuff out there. You’d think it would guilt some people into voting the stupid prop down.

The conservatives had a simple campaign. Protect Marriage. Don’t let them teach our kids about gay marriage in schools. It was a fear campaign. Lame, but it worked.

Guilt vs. Fear

I don’t know what is going to happen to our marriage status.

I do know this - you dumb ass conservative bastards…

We are still married  - whether it is legal or not -  and we will keep fighting for our rights.

Eventually we will win.

Thursday, November 13th, 2008

I used to like personalized license plates. When I was 16, I had a Jetta. My license plate said, IBJETTN. The license plate holder said, “I don’t drive to fast. I fly to low.” Now this seems ridiculos- but alot of things I did when I was 16 were ridiculos.

When I was waaaaaaayyyyy older, I had a license plate that said, BIZZZY. Now, this is an appropriate license plate for my life, but again - silly.

Now I have the standard issue license plate.

I am so boring.

I saw a license plate today that said OBAMA. Now, I am an OBAMA fan. I voted for him. Is it just me, or is it silly that someone who is likely not OBAMA or any relation thereof has this as their license plate? The woman driving certainly didn’t look like OBAMA, the wife, the kids, or a relative.

People are weird.

 

 

Change Is Coming

Wednesday, November 5th, 2008

Can you start tomorrow?

Barack Obama (AP)

Now, if my marriage isn’t nullified I will be completely stoked. I hope no one from Florida is counting the chads on this one.

http://www.noonprop8.com/

Oma

Wednesday, October 29th, 2008

I think the Pook said his first word this week.  Our dog Roma and he play fetch down our long hallway in the house and he called her, “Oma.”